From "Me" to "We": Building Community, One Swing, Serve, and Seed at a Time

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 In a world that often feels divided and isolated, the power of community has never been more essential. Over the past few years, I've had the privilege of witnessing this power firsthand through the creation of the Colonial Heights Swing Dance Club, the Colonial Heights Pickleball Club, and the Colonial Heights Community Garden Park.


Yes, I played a role in organizing and initiating these groups. But let's be clear: the true magic lies not in the "me," but in the "we."

I've watched as strangers became friends on the dance floor, as spirited rivalries blossomed into camaraderie on the pickleball court, and am hoping to see neighbors sharing laughter and harvests in the community garden. These spaces are more than just clubs or parks; they're living, breathing examples of what happens when we come together.

David Brooks, in his recent presentation, spoke about the fragmentation of society and the erosion of social capital. He highlighted the need for a shift from individualism to a more communal mindset. And I believe that's exactly what we're doing here in Colonial Heights. (https://youtu.be/QSa52TR9tCA?si=ZB0NbovyieycMAC5)

It's easy to get caught up in the "me," to focus on individual accomplishments and recognition. But the reality is, true fulfillment comes from being part of something larger than ourselves. When we invest in our communities, we invest in our own well-being.

Think about it:

  • Swing dancing isn't just about learning steps; it's about connecting with a partner, moving in sync, and sharing the joy of music.

  • Pickleball isn't just about winning points; it's about friendly competition, building relationships, and staying active together.

  • The community garden isn't just about growing vegetables; it's about sharing knowledge, nurturing the earth, and creating a space where everyone feels welcome.

    • The Colonial Heights Community Garden Park - In Development

These experiences remind us that we're all interconnected. We thrive when we support each other, when we share our passions, and when we work together to create a better community.

So, I encourage you to look around and find your "we." Join a club, volunteer your time, or simply strike up a conversation with a neighbor. You might be surprised at the connections you make and the impact you have.

Let's move away from the "me" and embrace the power of "we." Let's build a community where everyone feels a sense of belonging, where everyone feels valued, and where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.

Because, in the end, it's not about what we accomplish alone; it's about what we build together.

Call to Action:

  • What "we" can you be a part of in your community?

  • Share this post to inspire others to build community.

  • Leave a comment about what community means to you.
Location: Colonial Heights, VA 23834, USA

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